Wednesday 2 January 2013

Creative Depression And How I Got Rid of It

When I die one day, my biggest creative regret will likely be all the artwork I didn't have a chance to finish. Headlines marketed at artists and illustrators like "How to Increase Your Creativity" and "Get Your Creative Juices Flowing" never make sense to me.

Ideas aren't the problem. Time to execute them to my satisfaction is. 

Not every idea makes it past the sketch phase. 

So it may seem strange when I say that looking back, I was in a creative depression for much of last year. I was almost locked-up, I could barely act. Everything seemed too difficult: opening the research files, choosing digital or paper sketching, creating process templates, setting up the easel, dealing with my dismantled studio - it was all too much.

I think I know why, now.

I quit my full-time, 10-year, well-paying job managing an art store the day after I found out my wife was pregnant back in 2010. One friend put it, that he, "nods approvingly at the madness of it".  The final few months of my wife's pregnancy had me working from home, getting a steady stream of small revenue but exciting science-art projects. When Calvin was born, it was great, all three of us together. 

I completed this commission, Tylosaurus Reef around the time of my son being born. 

It was the best time of my life (being a dad, being freelance, blogging for freakin' Scientific American is a dream come true) but barely being able to keep up financially was hurting us. Michelle and I have weathered tough times before - we've been married for 9 years - but it was just us. The weight of responsibility for my son to have what he needs was all-encompassing. The cafe job felt professionally like dues I've already paid as a younger man, but ya do what ya gotta do. 

When Michelle went back to teaching, this was the state of things. I worked those 4 part-time jobs while being a full-time stay-at-home dad. Being a freelancing dad was a process I never finished learning how to do.

I painted this small oil on my first day of full-time freelancing. "Freelance Leap". I never did figure out how to fly all the way to those freelancing fairgrounds in the distance. 

The depression really set in for me last fall after my son started daycare. It was the right time for him to go: he loved it almost immediately, running around, learning like an exuberant, friendly and hyper little sponge. 

The new expense of daycare and the empty house/studio brought it all home for me: 

  • With the publishing market being where it is, 
  • With scientific funding being so small, 
  • With science-art as a field barely crawling on the periphery of cultural awareness, 
  • With my history growing up with one parent struggling to keep my sisters and I going,
  • With my experience going from job-to-job in a steady stream since I was 14 years old, 
  • With my amazing wife and amazing son being here in my life, 

I realized something.

I am not cut out for full-time freelancing.

I sent out resumes to a very small number of studios around Toronto that do work I respect and might be good for my 
fine art/science/social media/management background, and you know what? One of 'em hired me, and it's fantastic. 

My energy is back, I'm excited to go to work (the team there is brilliant, welcoming and fun), and I'm excited to get up at 5 a.m. to blog or sketch again. And we have groceries. 

The fallout is, there are a few people who have commissioned me I owe apologies to for being later than I ever expected. Three of those projects are still in the works and I hope I make them kick-ass and worth the patience that's been given to me.

I lifted the creative depression by starting to become part of a team doing work I believe in, and by bringing my share into the household. Never underestimate the impact that 

  • supportive people
  • new influences and 
  • livable income 

can have on your creativity. 

Okay, so it's not all perfect. For example: my face. 

Art is no longer a grind, and in 2013, I think it will be an adventure again. 

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Unknown said...

Wow Glendon,
It is great to read this! What a good choice you made looking for a job at a studio. Again a wonderful and artistic 2013!

P.S. I too relate to the responsibility of being a parent. I hope that next year I get a similar way out.

Jason Thibeault said...

Great post. Sally forth!

Blotz said...

I've been doing the SAHD thing for 7 years now and I completely understand the creative depression situation. My situation is more financially stable, so that is off my table. But my photography is in a half decade long slump waiting for kid #3 to enter full time school. 2015... can not come soon enough.

Mark O. Martin said...

Glendon, I have battling some of this business for many years, but for different reasons. I know the weird "paralysis" well, and I am glad you found a way around it. And I am so very glad you see what I have learned: that family is more than just a happy card, or mere support: it's our oxygen.

I am thankful for your comments to me, and I certainly will approach you about a commission. But I am so very glad you have a regular check, and are feeling great!

Best wishes and Happy New Year to you and your family!

Jacqueline Valencia said...

I loved reading this. Let's meet this year.:-)

- JacqValencia

John Hawks said...

This is awesome, Glendon -- thanks for sharing and congratulations on your success!

Glendon Mellow said...

Mieke, thanks so much! Support from fellow science-illustrating freelancer parents like you is always a good thing.

Thanks Jason! Don't call me Sally!

Thanks Blotz! I've heard it gets easier as they get older. I had so much fun home with my son, I know I am lucky to have had that time.

Mark: yes. Oxygen. Exactly. Happy New Year to you and yours!

Jacq - you betcha! I have ROM membership again. And I have been known to partake of the coffee bean when properly prepared.

Glendon Mellow said...

Thanks John! Which part was awesome? Me blinking during the photo?

It was the photo. I know it.

Alberta said...

Great post, thank you!

George W. said...

Thank you for this. It really spoke to me about some of the subliminal reasons I have been neglecting my blog and writing.
What a great post!

Glendon Mellow said...

Thanks Alberta!

Thanks George! As I said, I think illustrators and creative people don't always talk about the nuts and bolts of our day-to-day lives. I've been inspired by posts from Eric Orchard and Russell Dickerson in the past to try and post something about "how it's going" from time to time.

Glendon Mellow said...

Thanks very much, David!

I'm glad I gave freelancing a shot, though I'm still a little raw. You're certainly right about it being over-romanticized. For illustrators, it's the mark of the trade.

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